People with Eating Disorders are Self-Abusers and they can be very dedicated to this mission.

You are starving the little girl or boy that you once were. You are purging and bingeing that child. And you are sending such horrific messages that if you were literally that child's parent you could lose custody for mental, emotional and physical abuse. You have become a perpatrator of violence.

...Which is not beautiful.

Which is not something you (or anyone) should strive to become.

Andrea (left) beat her inner child to death. The little girl that Andrea once was did not deserve to die a slow painful death of starvation, loneliness, guilt, pain, obsession, fear after years of self-hate.

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But maybe you are trying to die. Maybe that's why you are here ~ researching a possible death for yourself. If that is the case, you have definately stumbled onto something. The problem is you won't just die. You will suffer first and you will force people who love you to suffer more. And you will not be thin enough, you will not be beautiful... In fact, you will make yourself more unattractive.

This path is not the only one. It is not necessary that you follow it. Choose something else to do with your life ~ your energy, your mind, your body, your essence... And if you are already trapped, reach out now and let people help you untangle yourself. Discover other things before it is too fucking late.

Kristi (right) died and she was the host of a pro-anorexia live journal community. She was admired for her dedication... but for what? Now she is gone and no one who didn't know her cares ~ and those that did know her are changed forever, and have to live with more pain than they did before.

Heather

(left, as she was then & right, as she is now)

is gone too.

Like you and I, she thought dying from the eating disorder was something that could never happen to her.

If she knew she would only live until age 22, do you think she would have spent so many of those years tormenting herself with an eating disorder??

There is still time, there is still life left, for you.

...And even though this website is quite large ~ it still cannot hold the amount of people who have lost their lives (those dead and those still living but have no life left) to eating disorders.

a vigil held for eating disorder deaths

SENSELESS DEATH!! Brian Kane (below) died dieting.

Too many books written by the surviving family members, after their loved one suffered and struggled and finally died.

Cindy Chow (left) was only 19 fucking years old!!! This isn't right... It's not okay... can you imagine leaving behind your family and friends this way??

WHY RISK IT??

Daniel Selby, who was once in an article about males and eating disorders (below), and as a soilder (right), and as a son, a brother and a friend (below right)...

lost the war with his body.

Do something now to change the course your life has taken.

Think about what truly matters.

DO NOT GIVE UP!!

Please.

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